heya :)

hey guys :)
its been a while since i've posted college work and all. first year of college is nearly finished and it scary to think that 24weeks flew by so fast and that i only have two years left then i'm finished for good. with exams coming up wont be on as much but i have vowed that come summer i will post most days if i can. :)

so i met up with my friend tonight and she was filling me in on all the gossip. one topic that came up was that her best also a friend of mine she was complaining that her now boyfriend was trying to make a move as in try to have sex with her. and for this reason she was thinking of breaking it off with him (i know wat ur thinking ) but the reason she said was that cause he hadn't tried to have sex with her that she feels like she doesn't know him. turns out this is how she gets to know the men in ur life is by sleeping with them!!!!!!! and this isn't the first time it has happened. it seems to be the first two weeks of any relationship she is in and if they haven't had sex well then she thinks about breaking up this person and  this happens in almost every relationship she starts.

now when i heard this i was tbh disgusted. i would love if i guy i liked wanted to take things slow, i think any decent girl/women would. these days it seems that there are men out there that just want sex but in this case it was a women. every girl dreams of mr right showing up and treating them with the love and respect they deserve and there right to want a decent man in there life.this whole incidence kinda made me thing that why do some women feel like the have to have sex to get to the other person??? why couldn't they get to know the person by talking to them finding common interest etc.

well wat do ye think??
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aoife
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what to do???

so i kind have a perdicament...
i started colleg there about a week and a half ago and i just haven't connected with any of the other peolpe in the class. i really wanna tho, cause i'm sick of feeling like i'm nothing. i wanna make new friend and experience college life. i dont wanna feel like no one will like me. i basically wanna have confidence to open my self up to people.
if ye ave any ideas i would be very grateful. thanks
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Somethings....

at the end of the day, there are some things you just cant help but talk about.Some things we just dont want to hear, and some things we say we cant be silent anylonger. Some things are more then what you say cause there's no other choice. somethings you keep to yourself, and not too ooften, but every now and then, some things simply speak for themselves.

Unperfect

I'm not a perfect girl, my hair doesn't stay in place and i spill things a lot, i'm pretty clumsy and sometimes i have a broken heart. My frinds and i somtime fight and maybe some days nothing goes right, But when i think about it and take a step back i remember how amazing life truly is and that maybe just maybe i like being unperfect
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